20 November 2007

GAHHH

K.. I don't understand this:


How can some people control their stress, and how can people simply not have that ability? For instance: whenever my dad is around- and under like total stress-- i cant even like talk to him.. or I will get bitched at in every way possible. Because of this I have learned what to ask and what to not even get near to. In a way this is aggravating to me. This totally shows me he cannot control his stress levels, unlike myself. For instance, now he super concerned about lighting in the house.. and is un-capable of doing simple things for himself, such as in a restaurant going and getting a refill on his drink..... idk.... that sounds typical.... but he seems to be a different person when he is stressed. Does anyone else have/had this experience with a family member?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

My dad used to get sooooooooo stressed each time we were about to go on Holydays I couldn´t even talk to him. It used to ruin every trip, but then -jsut like you- learned to ignore his stress, and just understtod it was affecting him more than it was affecting me, and I felt for him... that gave me power, and the necessary calmness to start a nice and enjoyable holyday! good luck with your blog.
Daniela